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Ms Morrison Speaks Money

Living Life For A Cause December 18, 2008

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My life’s mission includes speaking to women everywhere to empower them about their money, and encouraging us all to consider redistributing even $25/month to organizations that support women who have initiative and drive, and simply need a LOAN of capital–even a one time loan of $25.00–to boost them towards their freedom and that of their families. This Thanksgiving and holiday season may I recommend that you gift yourself and your friends with Mohammad’s book Banker to the Poor? It was one of the most powerful and riveting books I’ve read, in which he gives us hope that we can all participate in the freedom of our planet, one micro-loan at a time, freeing one spirit and family at a time.

This picture was my travel to Eritrean refugee camps in Africa last July. Yes, that’s me with the head covering on the right, giving out flimsy hair bands, which were received with so much humility it made me cry. People with so little, grateful for the smallest of tokens, and yet hopeful for a promising future. These same kids plead with their mothers to spend the pittance of money they earn at two and three jobs on education, NOT food.

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Why Women Over 60’s Need To Work December 8, 2008

Filed under: Happiness, Jobs, Money, women — msmorrisonspeaks @ 8:02 am
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There is no doubt that women contribute to majority of the country’s workforce. This includes women over 60’s. If you are a baby boomer but yet highly skilled and still physically fit, I would recommend that you find a job that is less stressful and yet enjoyable. Working women are less prone to depression. Especially if they love their work. Jobs that require social interaction with other people are very good. It is important for older women to be productive. It does not only boost self esteem but also allows them to think more positively about life. At age 60, women have enough wisdom, experience. I, myself is enjoying my job as motivational speaker. With my years of experience, it is important for me to know what I want to do and enjoy doing. You can find lots of jobs online for women over 50. Workforce50 a good site that offer jobs for older women.

 

My Success November 11, 2008

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Here is a short story of myself.   How I get to where I am today.  I hope this inspires you

 

White Women Over 40’s Has High Suicide Rate October 28, 2008

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Women ages 40 to 60 years old have largest increase in the overall suicide rate. This is pointed out in the December issue of the American Journal of Preventive Medicine. A 3.9 percent increase of number of suicide for middle aged white women breaks the 2.7 percent for white men. Medical studies always pointed out that it is men who are at risk of suicide because of men a less socially active compared to women. But this time, it’s the other way around. Researchers say this is very alarming as the number continues to increase yearly. They are trying to find out causes of the problem and consider suicide prevention programs as one major solution.

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100 Things To Do Before You Die October 16, 2008

Life is brittle. No matter how much we value and plan for our lives, one day we are gonna lose it. As a motivational speaker, it is my goal to encourage women to get out of their bag lady fears and make them realize how important it is for us to be able to spend the most of everything while we are here. For life is not destined to burden us but to enjoy it’s benefits. Many of us are so stuck with our pasts and our future fears that we forget to enjoy the beautiful things we have at present. The best things in life are free. It’s only man who complicates it. But what could be the

 

50 Most Powerful Women – Who Are They? October 13, 2008

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Do you wish to be one of the most powerful women in the world? Have you ever questioned what characteristics these women posses that made them to the top? Are they naturally gifted people or they were just lucky? These are the questions a lot of people desire to discover. People dreams to be powerful. That’s the reason why we love to watch movies of superheroes. One famous line from a popular movie, Superman, “with great power comes great responsibility” . Today, Superman is not the only superhero. Women. like G-Girl and Catwoman display their awesome powers. How about in real world? Who are the 50 most powerful women?

Here’s The The 10 Top Most Powerful Women:

1. Indra Nooyi
2. Irene Rosenfeld
3. Pat Woertz
4. Anne Mulcahy
5. Angela Braly
6. Andrea Jung
7. Susan Arnold
8. Oprah Winfrey
9. Brenda Barnes
10. Ursula Burns

 

Toss Out Bailout October 1, 2008

Filed under: Financial Security, Money, Security — msmorrisonspeaks @ 3:36 am
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Today’s was apparently a fairly acceptable if not good bill as an answer to an unprecedented liquidity and credit predicament bred here on US’s Wall Street and spawning across the globe. Voting to pass it to rectify the vast ineptitudes of lax financial regulation and it’s aftermath of failed banks and credit squeezes all at once was apparently too daunting for many of those we elected to lead us in Washington. Leaders lead in tough times. Shamefully, and certainly regretably, our leaders didn’t lead effectively today, from the President on down.

It’s been said in these past weeks, investors hate uncertainty. I disagree! My paltry 30 years in the business of advising clients to match their monetary investments with their choices has told me that investors HATE lying! So when lying results in the markets’ uncertainty, prices gyrate and the press and media pounce like starved tigers thrown a week’s worth of red meat.

The special interest groups don’t have any idea what was in this bill, nor the checks and balances that had been added, so to have set and stoked a huge bonfire of steam, admonishing anyone who could fog a mirror to call or email their representatives or Congress people on Capital Hill and vote NO, was about as irresponsible as special interest groups often turn out to be.

Where were those same special interest groups last week? Just as in the dark as they were yesterday, yet yesterday they chose to pull the blast email trigger that was so itchy for oh, so many days; too many days, in fact, and let their voices be heard. Where were these people all along this elongated process, of borrowing maximum home equity loans, gaining credit with merely a signature—who needs a job? Where were these smart consumers who borrowed more money than their paychecks, often at interest-only just because the loan shark sold them it? Where have these people been as they, themselves often got caught up in impulse spending over the past years and now are facing the sobering truth that yes, indeed, these massive credit card balances do have to be repaid—not just the minimum monthly payment? Is it too harsh to draw the comparison that while 700 billion just has too BIG a sound to swallow, so does the average American’s credit card balance relative to their annual salary? Who’s dropped their common sense here? Oh…perhaps most all of us!

So, we indeed have action today. The proverbial “Bill and Betty in Boise” have had their voices listened to; principally their NO vote registered. Bill & Betty have effectively trumped our elected officials and our governments’ financial representatives, who despite not having crystal balls, do have a fiduciary duty to us taxpayers, and who would potentially stand trial for mis appropriations, if I correctly understood the checks-and-balances that were written into the final bill.

Perhaps my fictitious characters Bill & Betty believe this “relief” is for the other guy and not them.  It’s not. The first time they try to get a credit card or mortgage or car loan, or expect that their employer can simply and continuosly fund payroll—yes their paycheck–out of their Money Market, they’ll realize that their lives and that of their family’s are also impacted. You see, while we may not have seen our neighbors—near and far, we are still all stitched at the hip with the financial systems being as intertwined as they are, unless, of course, you live on a remote farm, grow your own food, and till the field with horses that don’t require that darned expensive gas we’ve all been saddled with.

The so-called bailout bill (and I DO trust they’ll give it a relatable name next time) is necessary and perhaps the defeat was cast as early as they named it, a week ago. Bailout sounds like the average unaffected guy and gal has to do the heavy lifting for the high rolling gamblers who should have pushed back from the financial buffet tables before the second round of desserts. That’s a BIG part of the problem.

And, finally, I really believe that there was still a ton of confusion and indecisiveness around this final bill—yes that same confusion that apparently prompted John McCain to return to Washington to explain, particularly to his party—but IF some House Republican Representatives got so peeved when the cause of these dire circumstances was outlined by Pelosi this afternoon, that they changed their vote out of displaced anger, I would suggest that they:

1) grow up into the leader roles they’ve been elected to, and

2) re-direct that very anger to the failed policies and those politicians behind same over the past 8 years, just like many voters are poised to do in November.

After all, where DID that huge 2000 surplus evaporate to anyway? Ahhh. The truth again. Ouch, that hurts! And yes, the current financial situation of the United States and the world hurts too, hurts for strong willed and courageous elected officials to lead by putting a shovel in the ground of rebuilding, not run for cover screaming “Chicken Little, Chicken Little”.

The smart money is ALWAYS long term, so fear is not an effective emotion now. Neither is selling equities now at depressed levels. If you are not diversified with your Certificates of Deposit to qualify for FDIC insurance on all your fixed income deposits, then transfers of the amount in excess of the FDIC insurance to achieve that end are in order. Otherwise, keep your powder dry, and pray for more wisdom than has been served up in Washington today.

 

Women, Live Well And Be Happy September 24, 2008

Filed under: Happiness, Relationship, Success — msmorrisonspeaks @ 5:20 am
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I have come across this hub today, it’s titled “Live Well And Be Happy” and it inspires me so much I want to share it with you. I’m sure lots of women today are bothered with too much problems in life. Be it with finances, relationships, and even with the country’s present status. With all the struggles we encounter everyday, we need sometime to reflect where we are now and where we are heading to. It is important to know our purpose in life. Life they say is always a choice and our perspective determines the choices we make. How we view ourselves and how we view our life can make a difference with the decisions we make. To live well and be happy is a decision. It is one major decision. It’s hard to decide choosing a well-lived and happy life thinking that obstacles are combating us left and right. Nevertheless, we can make a choice! We can start by simplifying our lives and looking through ourselves! Yes, we can do it women!

 

5 Es to Success September 10, 2008

EMPATHIZE – I feel very sorry for women who have been socialized that “a man is a plan” and now have to “fend for themselves” after being widowed (often at an early age) or divorced. Trying to learn about finances when one is grieving is a recipe for disaster, as grieving is surely a full time job! Additionally women’s family’s money messages are particularly limiting, if not worse. Women’s socialization has also placed huge hurdles in our paths towards understanding our finances. I’m in touch with both the necessity AND the magnitude of the task ahead. My easy steps will help us safely get in touch with our feelings about money.

ERADICATE fears – Like all subconscious matter, our fears will control us until we disarm them and bring them to the conscious, so we can deal with them effectively and efficiently. Once we’ve taken an inventory of all our assets and listed all our expenditures we are well on our way to realizing that we can manage our doubts and devise plans to succeed.

EDUCATE – How can women win at the game of finances, if we don’t know the rules? Understanding the historic performance of various asset classes as well as commonly accepted DOs and DON’Ts will aid us in the race to compound money quicker. I’ll give you the Cliff Notes of investing so you can craft an effectively diversified portfolio. Knowledge is power!

ENERGIZE – Armed with a can-do attitude, we will move from our paralysis and take the first step(s) NOW! We will institute rewards for our achievements and further feel the power of success breeding success. We commit to birthing and nurturing a plan whereby our money outlives us, because it’s Our Turn Now!

EMPOWER – It’s not enough to hear what to do, we must act now, and feel the surge of pride when we move towards our goals. What we feed grows, and positive reinforcement is essential to achieving steady progress. The power within us is strong enough to channel towards converting obstacles into opportunities. I’ll give you 5 amazingly simple power unleashing tips!

 

Recommended Reading List September 4, 2008

Filed under: Happiness, Health, Money, Relationship, Security, Success — msmorrisonspeaks @ 4:07 am
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Who can’t use additional resources?  These are some titles we recommend for you to turn to for more in-depth help on communication in general, and communication around money matters.  These books offer easy to understand insights and tips on dealing with your fears, and identifying significant differences between men and women that impact communication.

  • “Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples”, by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
  • “You Don’t Understand”, by Deborah Tannen, Ph.D.
  • “The Art of Loving”, by Erich Fromm
  • “Marriage Contracts & Couples Therapy: Hidden Forces in Intimate Relationships”, by Clifford Sager
  • “Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus”, by John Gray, Ph.D.
  • “Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus”, by John Gray, Ph.D.
  • “Men Women and Relationships”, by John Gray, Ph.D.
  • “The Road Less Traveled”, by M. Scott Peck
  • “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway”, by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.
  • “Embracing Uncertainty”, by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.
  • “It Pays To Talk”, by Carrie & Charles Schwab
  • “Values-Based Financial Planning”, by Bill Bachrach